Graves, Robert P.: - A successful white-collar professional by day working in healthcare as a project management executive, Robert P. Graves is an openly gay man living in Buffalo, New York. Through his many years of therapy, he learned to forgive others and accept his family and friends for who they are. Now he has turned the focus inward, forgiving himself for the years of reckless behavior and finally accepting himself as he is: a successful, healthy, gay man living with bipolar depression.