When its over but you're not over it. "Deb Purdy provides a welcomed road map for transforming the trauma of divorce into a positive, life-changing experience. As a marriage and family therapist, I highly recommend this book to anyone dealing with emotional challenges after divorce." Dan Valentine, Ph.D. Whether you're newly divorced or have been divorced for a long while, feelings of shame, anger and regret can linger for months and even years. The good news is that you have a choice about how you want to view your divorce experience. You have the power to reinvent divorce for yourself in a way that makes you stronger, happier and more peaceful. This book can help if you've been divorced and you're ready to: Transform anger, blame and regret into joy, acceptance and personal power. Embrace the gifts and lessons of your divorce. Peacefully co-exist with your ex-spouse. Support your kids in healing and thriving after divorce. Develop your plan for creating your life the way you've always wanted it. If you're ready to use your divorce as a springboard to your best life, this self help book is for you.